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Back home I’m at prime dating age but I wonder about the guys I date here and why they’re not married yet.Rebecca: Yeah, it seems like back home dating is really much more frequent.Not to say that’s true for every foreign guy here but you do see a lot more couples made up of Japanese girls and non-Japanese guys around.

But after they said goodbye and he messaged her saying he wanted to see her again so there’s obviously some kind of cultural dislocate there.

Anthony: I’ve heard so many stories like that where people go on dates and it’s a weird, awkward situation but then later they message you as if it was the best date ever. I feel that Japanese men scare quite easily and as a foreigner you won’t know exactly what it was that freaked them out.

Christa: I feel like I have the same conversation over and over again because my language skills aren’t good enough.

Anthony: Is there really a casual dating culture here?

Chiara: I heard too that Japanese men weren’t so interested in foreign women but my experience is kind of the opposite.

But you don’t know if they’re interested in you as a person or because of your foreignness.

My friend, an American guy, has experienced a lot of first dates where the women already bring up kids and marriage and he’s like ‘woah, what about your favorite music first?

’ Rebecca: My experience dating foreign guys here has been comparable to back home – so pretty awful actually – but the general picture of foreign guys in Japan is that they really want to date Japanese girls.

With Japanese guys you don’t know how much of their behavior is cultural or is actually their personality.

And at the same time it’s hard to know, like we were saying earlier, if the guy is interested in you mostly because you’re foreign and the kind of status that that brings with it.

I invited this guy to my house and I think it was pretty clear what I wanted to happen, and at a certain point I started to kiss him and he said ‘No. ’ Anthony: He’s like ‘えええ。。。you didn’t want to study Japanese…?

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