Tell your ex you are dating
I think this is a good time to pause and acknowledge that this is a critical point of where I go wrong.
And apparently so have all the dudes that were once on Tinder and now are also on Bumble. This scenario was probably thought up within the first few seconds of viewing his profile.
I’m sorry, but there’s no way I can hide my unshakable, moral compass on this one – it’s weird and wrong and awful for a number of valid reasons.
If you find yourself starting to fancy your mate’s ex, you need to ask yourself whether it’s simply lust cravings for human contact or something more.
Thirdly, yet without intending to come across as territorial in a caveman-defecating-on-his-patch-of-land sort of way, that person was with you and was part of your life.
They were someone who significantly contributed to shaping the person you are today.
So you’ll be damned if you’re gonna give someone else’s penis your blessing.
And it’s funny that we see this kind of thing happen in films and on TV, like it’s the norm – it isn’t!
Just because they did it in Friends, it doesn’t mean it’s OK in real life, guys.
Where relationships are concerned, going out with one of your mates’ ex partners is, whichever way you look at it, wrong.
For me, the whole ‘follow your heart’ or ‘the heart wants what the heart wants’ cliches should be thrown out the window here.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating